As you make more contacts online on sites like Linkedin, Facebook and Twitter it can be hard to maintain effective communication. A great way to focus some of the conversation is to start a group where you can share your expertise and engage with people who are truly interested. I have been invited by a number of contacts to new groups they have started this week on Linkedin & Facebook. We have NRG-networks groups on these networks where we share content and interact.
Take a look at these NRG-networks online groups for the type of things you can do with minimal effort:
I love the quote from Woody Allen that 80% of success is showing up, but as Nick Ingram pointed out over at the NRG-networks Linkedin Group it takes more than just that.
As Nick said you need to show up regularly "Just stick at it, offer expertise and help, you will be rewarded in ROI, but it might take a while."
He then stressed the importance of follow-up and said, "How many people have I listened to who, when asked, admitted that they had not followed up on the people they had met or spoken to or who had given them contact details? I'll tell you, ... loads!"
Many networking groups give you the opportunity to speak for 10 minutes to the group to let them know more about you and what you do. I know the prospect terrifies some people, but a well delivered 10 minutes is a great way of building your profile.
If you are nervous about it then why not get the Group Host to interview you. I saw this done recently and it worked really well. The speaker was in financial services and the host asked beforehand for the 3 biggest issues that his clients were currently facing?
The host then introduced the 10 minute speaker and asked for his advice on these 3 things with a question and answer approach. It worked really well and the speaker came over as knowledgeable, credible and helpful. All great for building his reputation.
If you are new to business networking you may well be looking for opportunities to do business with the people you meet. This can be a very short term view and you may well stop before you really get to the benefits to be gained from networking. Each person you meet knows many more people. In the longer term having that person as an advocate can lead you to repeated and consistent business opportunities. When you meet someone that has the potential to unlock many doors for you then build the relationship first.
Someone asked me today about the types of business represented in the NRG-networks groups. He said "I am keen to join but would like a summary of who your members are ?? Small / Medium or large business ..."
I replied "Mostly Directors & Partners in small (10 to 49 employees). They are suppliers & trusted advisers to medium & large."
It is the second sentence in my reply that demonstrates the real opportunity. The size and types of business they have dealings and real influence with.
For someone to advocate you and your services they will probably need some experience of what you do at some stage. One of the challenges in building your network of advocates is how do you give others this experience when they are unlikely to be customers.
One great way to do this is by delivering seminars and a number of networks include this type of activity. In fact most of our NRG networking events include a member delivered seminar.
"I do not do any cold calling - all my business comes from networking and referrals. Networking is not about selling - it's about building relationships. Much of the business is as a result of doing a presentation where I share my secrets..."
Would your expertise lend itself to a good seminar?
Would you like to know the three issues that every business owner must deal with regardless of the size of the business?
Would you like to learn a three step process to successfully address those issues?
Do you know why you must evaluate your success based upon the success of the people you hire?
Do you know why beginning with the One Page Business Plan can be the foundation of your success?
If those are interesting to you, you want to watch Ron Finklestein's video, Behaviors of Successful Business Owners. Ron is a business coach. He is also an expert author at www.evancharmichael.com. This site is promoted as the Internet's #1 resource for small Business motivation and strategies.
Baby Boomer Entrepreneurs and entrepreneurs of all ages, five minutes invested in this video could give you the leg up to success that you are seeking.
One of the attendees at a seminar I presented last week on effective business networking shared that she had used some of the advance material at a breakfast meeting that morning. She had used her one minute there to tell a story about a client and felt that people fully understood for the first time what she did.
One of the exercises we use in NRG Business Networking Seminars is to try and help people communicate what they do in a way that people will understand more readily.
Some people have a tendency to over complicate their explanation of what they do. One very simple way to help people understand is to tell a quick story. The elements needed are a quick explanation of the situation one of your clients was facing, what you did and the result. With practice you can make sure the example represents the type of client you deal with, the problems they have that you solve and the results you achieve. It's no accident that the media use human interest in their stories so why not do the same?
Here is a quick example from one of our NRG networking groups. A new partner in a professional firm needed to generate his own clients from scratch within a limited time and with few local connections. He joined one of our networking groups and spent time each month connecting with other professionals and building a small number of good relationships giving support and making referrals where he could. A year on and he has a steadily increasing number of referrals and new clients from the time invested in these relationships.
There's a great story in Andy Lopata's latest 'Connecting is not enough' newsletter. Andy recently shared a platform as a speaker with former State President of South Africa and Nobel Laureate F W de Klerk. He relates how the 2 political opponents, de Klerk and Nelson Mandela, collaborated in raising electoral funds. It's a great story and you can read the full story at the link above. (There is more about the pair's relationship in Andy's blog at 'The Art of Relationship Building - F W de Klerk and Nelson Mandela').
In my experience people who think of themselves as competitors often find more in common to collaborate on than they think. I remember meeting an accountant who expressed some trepidation that he may encounter other accountants at an upcoming NRG business networking event.
I asked him where most of his referrals came from. He paused for a minute, smiled and said "other accountants!"
I have seen a number of presenters over the years talk about how they get themselves in the right mindset before undertaking some activity or other. These have ranged from simple things like breathing exercises to complicated figure of eight walking patterns.
I attended an excellent networking masterclass from Nigel Temple last night. During one of the discussions Nigel was sharing how open questions were much more important than any elevator pitch and said that he always thinks CAKE before networking. Why cake you might ask. Cake reminds him of Mr Kipling (exceedingly good cakes!) and that reminds him of a verse from the poem in The Elephant's Child from Rudyard Kipling's Just So Stories:
I KEEP six honest serving-men (They taught me all I knew); Their names are What and Why and When And How and Where and Who.
That reminds Nigel to prepare for asking questions and then actively listening when he meets people. That way he can listen and make relevant connections for the people he meets.
How do you make sure you get in the right frame of mind?
With any online network your profile is at the heart of your experience. It’s how people can be sure they’ve found the right person when they search for you. Here are some tips on creating a successful online business networking profile from this month's NRG-networks Community Newsletter.
• Just like when you meet someone in person, your profile photo is the way people who meet you online can put a face to your name.
• What you write in your online profile summary is just like the 30 second introduction you’d give to someone you’ve just met, so don’t underestimate the value in spending a little bit of your time getting it just right.
• You can add a few carefully thought-out keywords to your profile to indicate how you’d like to be found when people search for you. Think about the things you specialise in and add them to the keywords section on your profile.
• Your education, your interests, and your professional experience are the kind of things other people are likely to find interesting about you and what you do. They trigger conversation and interaction. So make sure you add as much information as you can so people find you and ask to connect with you.
